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I’m writing a book!
I’ve been keeping a secret.
Jul 30, 2025 • Dacy Gillespie
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what joyful style looks like after religious conformity
a live video with Gemma Hartley
Feb 10 • Dacy Gillespie and Gemma Hartley
less is still too much
in this installment of wtf's wrong with me, TikTok led me to a potential diagnosis
Feb 3 • Dacy Gillespie
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can stylists all just shut up about “defining a waist”? and is Queer Eye fatphobic?
Mar 12, 2024 • Dacy Gillespie
are GLP-1s undoing women’s body acceptance work?
Dec 2, 2025 • Dacy Gillespie
style story: jessica defino
Feb 6, 2024 • Dacy Gillespie
neutrals are safe. color is scary.
Jun 17, 2025 • Dacy Gillespie
i'm not supposed to be here right now
Aug 1, 2024 • Dacy Gillespie
less is still too much
Feb 3 • Dacy Gillespie
66% of American women are plus size
On pulling one small thread and trusting it matters.
Jan 27 • Dacy Gillespie
I had an existential crisis over tiktok shop
on wanting cute things but knowing too much
Jan 20 • Dacy Gillespie
being yourself can be part of your brand
Watch now | what if we embrace softness and comfort and coziness: talking professional style with Lisa Sibbett
Jan 20 • Dacy Gillespie and Lisa Sibbett
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bored with your closet?
answers to your closet edit questions
Jan 13 • Dacy Gillespie
what to do with clothes that don't fit
do you have the new year decluttering bug?
Jan 6 • Dacy Gillespie
top 7 posts of 2025
plus a little recap
Dec 30, 2025 • Dacy Gillespie
my favorite outfits of the year
It’s a couple days before Christmas and no one’s in the mood to read something deep — at least I’m not — so here’s a fluffy outfit post.
Dec 23, 2025 • Dacy Gillespie
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unflattering
A newsletter about letting go of what we've been told we *should* wear so that we can discover our own authentic personal style from an anti-diet and weight inclusive personal stylist.
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