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I Left My Tween Daughter to Die on Mount Rainier
Feb 12, 2025
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The Days Are Shorter and Darker
Nov 13, 2024
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Someone Once Called Me a Thought Leader and I Couldn't Hear Anything Else He Said After That
Sep 11, 2024
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Kicking Off Season One of Pretend You’re Good At It: ADHD and Imposter Syndrome
Sep 4, 2024
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Winter is for Resting
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How I'm Writing (and maybe dancing?) Through the Rage of 2026
I think I discovered the secret to joyful defiance.
Jan 29
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What Is the Active Work of Rest?
“Build up a garden in your mind's eye to soothe the cost of what's left behind.”
Jan 22
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The Garden Taught Me Winter Is For Resting
Resist all the New Year's resolution nonsense!
Jan 14
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💬 Let’s Talk About Planning Fuck-Ups!
Because January is for hibernating, not planning.
Jan 7
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Hope & Delight
2025 Was Weird, But I Think We Made It. Here's How I know.
Measuring the unmeasurable markers of success.
Dec 24, 2025
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Delightful Things In No Particular Order
You can probably skip this one.
Oct 29, 2025
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How I Changed Between Two No Kings Protests
Plus three ways to take action besides joining a protest.
Oct 22, 2025
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I Don't Like What Hope Demands
Risk is, well...it's risky.
Jul 23, 2025
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Stay Strong In the Middle!
Hope is a conscious effort.
Jul 9, 2025
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Hopefulness Is the Warrior Emotion
A six month check-up on our sanity.
May 21, 2025
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Light Up a Path to Lead Yourself Home
Plus: Scenes from a PNW Island Getaway
Apr 11, 2025
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My Current Three Sources of Delight (Until the Government Bans Them)
...or shackles them on a plane to Columbia.
Jan 30, 2025
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Beat the Shit Out of Entropy with Charitable Giving
Your time, your dollars, and your voice can make a difference.
Dec 4, 2024
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The Days Are Shorter and Darker
Let's be joyful motherfucking lights for each other.
Nov 13, 2024
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Curiosity & Meandering
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My Bathroom Is Crappy But the Seahawks Are Not!
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Feb 11
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How I Changed Between Two No Kings Protests
Plus three ways to take action besides joining a protest.
Oct 22, 2025
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I Spent My Birthday At the ER
The good news is, dark humor prevailed, even as I disassociated.
Oct 1, 2025
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My Vacation Adventure Bender
Bookstores Galore!
Sep 4, 2025
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Actual Posts I've Made on My Local Buy Nothing Facebook Group
Writers are always writing.
Feb 26, 2025
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