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10 Offline Things I Did This Week
Started a new painting, ice cream with Grape-Nuts, Not Working From Home
Feb 15
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Valentine’s Day Q&A: staying hopeful, navigating the dating landscape, and searching without settling
A recording from Lee Tilghman's live video
Feb 14
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The brides are not alright.
On wanting to go all out while being low-maintenance and why does society keep telling me this is my only day to shine?
Feb 13
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The unsexy financial choices that let me write my book
Live below your means to protect your dreams.
Feb 10
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10 Offline Things I Did This Week
Sticky buttery Japanese sweet potatoes, frothed milk the old fashioned way, coffee with a neighbor
Feb 8
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The Only Babaà Review You’ll Ever Need
Oct 22, 2025
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Jack: The Beginning
Jul 14, 2025
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Instagram Dentists, Part 1
May 17, 2023
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Why I quit therapy
Apr 3, 2025
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New York or Somewhere
About a year and a half ago, I titled this draft, “Would Leaving New York Make Me Happier?” I didn’t get very far; I guess something inside told me I…
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What I found when I let myself believe again
A follow up to my essay on faith and the untangling of ideas it took to get there.
Feb 3
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Book Club is BACK!
Let's read THE MOTHERLOAD by Sarah Hoover.
Feb 2
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10 Offline Things I Did This Week
Wedding cake, tea, birds, pottery, & protein
Feb 1
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Things I'm doing to prepare for baby
Research-backed, experience-earned, and pressure-free
Jan 29
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Not Every Influencer Needs to Be a Social Justice Warrior
A short essay on fear, perfectionism, moral performance, and my own role in enforcing a culture I now question.
Jan 27
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Working out in person again, spa day for my laundry, breakfast hyperfixation of the week (plus SNOW)
Jan 25
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Friendship breakups and the chasms they leave behind.
The grief we’re never taught how to mourn.
Jan 22
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Should I get an ŌURA Ring?
A conscious consumer reckons with technology trackers after eight years without them.
Jan 19
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