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Wear comfortable shoes
When preparing for a double shift, or resisting an authoritarian takeover
Sep 19, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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First day on the job that led to a life behind bars—
It was a scorching day in 1987.
Feb 4, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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Love Poems on Placemats
Valentine's Day seems a good time to revisit a story about the summer in 1992 when I polled customers for their thoughts on love.
Feb 14
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Eileen O'Connor
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OK, what's up with all the two-dollar bills?
Does this mean good luck is heading our way?
Feb 13
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Eileen O'Connor
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A Tale of Two Mondays
Paul Newman, hardy tourists, kindly strangers and tamales
Feb 6
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Eileen O'Connor
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Some things you just can't prepare for
Nov 28, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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I made John F. Kennedy Jr. laugh
Apr 11, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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I am not in the mood
Jan 23
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Eileen O'Connor
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The comfort of strangers
Jan 30
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Eileen O'Connor
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The comfort of strangers
People go to bars for lots of reasons—to catch up with friends, to go on a pub crawl, to tamp down pre-wedding jitters, to celebrate milestones, to get…
Jan 30
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Eileen O'Connor
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I am not in the mood
Pay attention to signs
Jan 23
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Eileen O'Connor
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A fish tale
I've had a beef with fish for years
Jan 16
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Eileen O'Connor
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2026 is turning out to be a real asshole
Nine days in, and we already need a break from this year
Jan 9
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Eileen O'Connor
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When the good times rolled to a screeching halt
(Why I don't work New Year's Day anymore)
Jan 2
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Eileen O'Connor
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A Winter storm is headed our way
And we're also creeping into that weird no-man's-land between Christmas and New Year's.
Dec 26, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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Did last weekend knock the wind out of you, too?
Even as we've become almost numb to the cascade of horrifying events, last week was truly shocking.
Dec 19, 2025
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Eileen O'Connor
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Life Behind Bars
Stories from 35 years (and counting) as a bartender in New York City— a prime location to view a constantly changing city, and the hilarity and heartbreak of... well, us.
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