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i stopped eating because i couldn’t find another way of saying “i am tired”
Why women punish their bodies as a way of communicating distress.
Feb 14
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If I can’t be the sweetest girl alive than I’ll die trying
The feminine urge to be infinitely agreeable
Feb 13
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Did you really lose your virginity if you didn’t lose anything at all?
How you lose your virginity can either cement your value or completely destroy it. What happens when neither occurs?
Feb 7
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Why a belief in God is optional for men but vital for women
Men don't need to actually believe in God in order to have heaven on earth. It's the opposite for women.
Feb 1
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self sexualize or die
The vulnerability of not realizing the world sees girls as sexual beings first
Jan 29
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I have become Carrie Bradshaw
An essay by Olive Ezezika about how she transcended the obsession for her own Mr. Big.
Jan 25
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Why is women’s suffering a non-factor in your politics?
Pro-porn attitudes only survive because women's pain is treated as unimportant.
Jan 16
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SAVE MARRIAGE! ABOLISH GENDER ROLES!
How the nuclear family can turn on women.
Jan 11
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when boobs become tits
Boobs were fun right up until I realized men could also see them
Jan 3
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DO kiss and tell
It's integral to your life satisfaction that you gossip about sex with your girls.
Jan 2
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I’ll stop trying to be hot when I stop wanting to be in love
The only thing that got easier post glow-up was flirting. I have yet to decide if it was worth it.
Dec 22, 2025
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choice feminism is popular precisely because it does nothing for women
Centering women's choice can never be productive if the context that informs women's choices is not also considered
Dec 19, 2025
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