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What is a Woman?
And what happens if we take the question seriously?
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The Magic Pill that Makes You Cis
And would you take it?
Nov 17, 2025
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The Secret Power of Presentation
Today I want to talk about presentation—boymode vs.
Nov 13, 2025
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We Need to Talk about Sex, Orgasms, and Feminizing HRT
Oh my!
Sep 24, 2025
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Why Can't I Just be OK Like I Am?
Ok, so you’re trans. Why does that mean you have to do anything about it?
Aug 3, 2025
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Letting Go of Pretense
How dressing like a girl finally helped me feel like one.
Jul 30, 2025
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Take a Broader View of Transitioning
“Transitioning” is probably the biggest single word in trans experience.
Jul 22, 2025
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Coming Out is Not Selfish
No matter how much it might feel that way.
Jun 27, 2025
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