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The Suicide Hotline Kink
Some men heard “crisis support” and thought “interesting ambience.”
Feb 19
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Rest Is Political
Because exhaustion is not accidental and comfort is not evenly distributed.
Feb 10
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Jessica Mills
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You Can’t Feminist Your Way Out of Wanting to Be Held
A meditation on ideological guilt, soft longing, and why empowerment still wants a lap
Feb 5
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They Told Us Not To Say This
On why women are punished for admitting that love does not cancel fear, exhaustion, or reality.
Feb 2
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Jessica Mills
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My Nervous System Is On Sabbatical
A meditation on the body that never clocks out, even when the mind begs for mercy.
Jan 30
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My Pussy Has Higher Standards Than the UN
Apr 27, 2025
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Lonely Men? That’s a ‘Them’ Problem, Not a ‘Me’ Problem
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You Can’t Break the Hymen if You Miss the Hole, Brad
Apr 22, 2025
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If Forgiveness Is Feminine, Call Me Masculine
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I Trust My Gut More Than Your Values
Why my stomach now runs background checks my brain used to ignore.
Jan 27
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He Came, He Offered Nothing Else
They spend it like it’s gold and then act shocked when it doesn’t buy respect, intimacy, or a future.
Jan 22
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If Silence Is Golden, Why Do Men Get So Loud About Nothing?
A field study into why men mistake volume for value.
Jan 19
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Jealousy Is Your Unlived Autobiography
A theory on why envy is not toxic but diagnostic.
Jan 15
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Jessica Mills
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The Washing Machine Has Seen More of Me Than Most Men
On the difference between being held and being possessed.
Jan 13
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Tiny Knives Growing Out of Me
The razor is my enemy, the stubble is my enemy, and somehow I pay for both.
Jan 9
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Chill Girls Die Crying in the Shower
On the myth of the effortless woman and the men who demand her.
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