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Happy February, lovers.
Feb 11
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chandra
9
5
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Black mouth
The art of not closing your gap
Feb 6
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chandra
18
8
9
For the umpteenth time, it's enslaved not slaves
I'm sick of it
Feb 2
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chandra
11
2
2
The tears of a clown
I’m trying not to wear a face that says “I’m alone but looking for someone.” It’s the wrong season for the summer slip dress I’m wearing too, but I…
Jan 31
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chandra
7
3
RTO heaux
A sexier way to schlep
Jan 19
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chandra
8
1
1
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Give and take: 2025 edition
Mental clarity, the discernment to move away from bad partnerships, and a departure from all things performative were themes that emerged from my…
Dec 27, 2025
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chandra
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Things I'd like for Christmas
A short list
Nov 19, 2025
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chandra
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If you don't care about your partner
Trigger warning: this piece addresses infidelity, married men, and single women in a heterosexual context.
Nov 9, 2025
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chandra
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3
When you hear this
Will you think of me?
Oct 28, 2025
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chandra
13
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Who can you text at 3am
To my A1 day ones
Oct 12, 2025
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chandra
10
2
1
Small note on a big change
I recently moved to Europe.
Sep 26, 2025
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chandra
10
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Substack scores
An incomplete list of things I love that I’ve found on Substack
Aug 25, 2025
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chandra
10
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